Planning the music for your wedding ceremony can present many challenges. Here are some frequently asked questions and answers.
Planning the music for your wedding ceremony can present many challenges. Here are some frequently asked questions:
What Is the "Liturgy"?
The Liturgy refers to the Order of Worship within a religious service. Each denomination has its own liturgy, which is comprised of readings from scripture or poetry, musical interludes, a sermon/homily, prayers, offertory and exchange of vows and rings.
How Many Songs Will I Need?
This will depend on the length of the service and where you would like the music to be placed. The most common number is between 2 and 3 pieces before the service and 3 and 5 during. Sometimes more songs are needed depending on how elaborate a service you are planning.
Where Should the Songs Be Placed in the Service?
You will need a processional (entrance music, usually instrumental), and a recessional (exit music, usually instrumental). Other selections will depend on the order of the service. It is common to have prelude music before the service (either vocal and/or instrumental) and between readings to add variety and flow. You may also want a song right after the sermon or your exchange of vows and rings. If you choose to have a unity candle lighting, a brief song is also appropriate. All of this will depend on the order of the service.
For Christian services, you may choose to have a song during offertory and communion. Traditionally for Catholic Masses, the parts of the Mass are sung as well.
How Long Can the Songs Be?
You will want to consider the length of the song before determining where it occurs in the service. A song that is too long can make the service drag. One that is too short may lose impact and meaning.
Examples of song length: Between Readings: 2 to 3 minutes After Exchange of Vows: 2 to 3 minutes During Unity Candle: 1 or 2 minutes Offertory: 2 to 3 minutes Communion: 5 to 7 minutes or 2 shorter pieces
Are the Lyrics Appropriate for My Wedding Ceremony?
It is important to review the lyrics of a song to be sure they are appropriate for you and if they capture the essence of your celebration. This is a very personal choice. However, there are many pop songs one may enjoy, but which may not be fitting for a religious ceremony. Just as there may be a beautiful song with a religious message that may not fit well in a non-religious ceremony. Again this is a very personal matter.
Are There Certain Restrictions Placed on the Music by the Clergy?
The Clergy of many churches feel it is important to maintain the sacredness and solmenity of the ceremony by setting parameters on music selection. Many parishes will provide guidelines for you. On the other hand, there are clergy who are more lenient and place no restrictions. It is recommended that you discuss this with your Pastor or Celebrant first.
Do I have to hire an organist?
Most churches and synagogues have a resident organist. If you choose to use instrumentation in addition to or in place of the organist, you will need to discuss the terms with that person. If no organist is provided, I will be happy to provide one for your ceremony.
What type of ensemble should I use?
In addition to having a vocalist with organ accompaniment, there is a variety of ensembles to choose from. Some popular combinations are listed below:
Voice + String Trio Voice + String Quartet Voice + Harp Voice + Harp and Flute Voice + Guitar Voice + Guitar and Flute Voice + Organ and Trumpet
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