Throw a special party for your attendants and family following these time-tested tradtions for the rehearsal dinner.
After the ceremony rehearsal, the groom's family usually provides a rehearsal dinner for the bride and groom's family, the attendants, and out-of-town guests. Here's some tips on how to have a fun dinner the night before the Big Day.
Where's the rehearsal dinner? This party should in no way overshadow the big day. Have a relaxed picnic outside, or a casual dinner at a local restaurant. The rehearsal dinner is only as formal as you want to make it, but considering the money and time that goes into today's weddings, the more relaxed the atmosphere, the more energy you'll save for the next day.
Who is the host? Although tradition dictates that the groom's family puts together the rehearsal dinner, the bride's family or a special relative can also be the host of the dinner.
Who is invited? Usually, the rehearsal dinner is a low-key, special time for the bride's and groom's families, the wedding party, and friends and family of the host. The rehearsal dinner can also include out-of-town guests that will not get to spend a lot of time with the bride and groom on the wedding day.
What happens at the dinner?The rehearsal dinner is usually an opportunity for everybody to speak. Traditionally, the groom's father (if hosting) first offers a toast to the bride and her family. Next, the best man toasts the bride and groom, followed by the groom who toasts his bride and her parents. Lastly, the bride or her maid of honor can toast the groom and his family. This is also the arena in which to thank attendants and present them with gifts.
How can the rehearsal dinner be unique? We have been to weddings where the bride and groom put on a funny skit about how they met, or present a slide show starting from when they were children through their engagement. These special touches can add a personal note to the occasion. Also, many times family members or friends who know the couple well find this a perfect occasion to share stories or anecdotes.
After the dinner... Most families call it an early night since the next day is long and stressful. If there are a lot of out-of-town friends and family present, however, the bride and groom might suggest an after-dinner gathering at a local pub or someone's living room to catch up and share some laughs. Whether you rush home to get your beauty sleep or stay out all night partying, just remember that the next day will be the longest day of your life, so take it easy on yourself!
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